Writing A Eulogy Using Quotations – Everyone Leaves Behind

Writing A Eulogy Using Quotations

“Everyone must leave something behind when he dies.”

  • Writing and delivering a eulogy for a family who have lost a loved one needs great care and attention.
  • Finding the right words to say can be difficult.
  • How do you say what you know people will feel deep inside when simple words seem so inadequate?

As a funeral celebrant in Bromsgrove, I am called on regularly to write eulogies for people I do not know. I consider it a privilege. Each person is unique and special. Each person deserves to have the time it takes to write a unique eulogy. It is the greatest honour to say some words about a person’s life. To tell their story in a way that speaks of relevancy and authenticity. I have been able over many years of speechwriting and public speaking coaching to learn how to do this with sensitivity and care. Researching and using relevant quotes allows me to find the right words that often say just the right phrase to build the rest of the eulogy around.

Recently, I came across this quotation. It allowed me to use it as a foundation to speak about all that a grandmother had left behind for her family. It speaks about how we never forget those we love who have passed before us. Often it is the simplest of items that bring back happy memories. The quote is by Ray Bradbury, the American author.

How To Use This Quotation In Writing A Eulogy

Retelling the story of a loved one, especially someone mature in years, allows you to see how they have built a legacy. Here, I am not talking financial legacy, but rather a life legacy. The way that they have lived their life speaks volumes about their values and purpose.

You could use this quote as a “bookend” to the eulogy. When you begin the eulogy, after your initial comments, read this quote.

Ray Bradbury, the author, wrote these words.

“Everyone must leave something behind when he dies. A child or a book or a painting or a house or a wall built or a pair of shoes made. Or a garden planted. Or something you have had your hand upon. Something your hand touched some way so your soul has somewhere to go when you die, and when people look at that something, you’re there.”

Today, as we look back on the life of XXXX we are reminded by so many things that her hand was upon. We can see her hand upon her family …. (expand upon how she influenced here family) We can see her hand upon ABC and so on. Then at the end reread the quotation.

So as we look back to see how XXXX influenced so many areas of your lives, you will see forever that she is still there in each of those things. Her hand touched and her soul now lives within. When you look at these things, you will see XXXX.

Using quotes in eulogies adds depth, originality and creativity. It makes your eulogies memorable for the families you serve.

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